A Letter For A Friend

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MY LIFE WOULD NOT HAVE BE COMPLETED WITHOUT YOU I VERY THANK FULL TO HAVE YOU IN MY LIFE. FOR A PERSON TO HAVE FRIEND HE MOST FIRST SHOW HIMSELF FRIENDLY.WHETHER I HAVE KNOWN YOU FOR YEARS OR MONTHS IT DON’T TAKE A LIFE TIME TO KNOW WHO IS A REAL GENUINE FRIEND. YOU ARE TURELY APPRECIATED NOT MANY PEOPLE CAN SAY THAT THEY HAVE REAL FRIENDS SO I AM TURELY BLESSED TO BE ONE OF THE FEW TO SAY THAT I HAVE REAL FRIEND OR SOMEONE TO CALL UPON WHEN I NEED TO TALK OR NEED A LITTLE CHEERING UP THUR MY DAY YOU PUT UP WITH MY BULL WHEN YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO ONLY BECAUSE YOU CARED YOU HAVE BEEN MY LIGHT THUR MY DARKEST HOURS. THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU ARE TURLY SPECIAL TO ME EVEN IF WE DON’T EVER SEE EACH OTHER FOR YEARS TO COME I WILL ALWAYS HOLD YOU DEAR TO MY HEART♥.COMING FORM THE HEART WITH LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER MAY GOD BLESS YOU IN THIS LIFE’S JOURNEY. YOU WERE A TRUE BLESSING TO MY LIFE I LOVE YOU

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Long Distance Relationship

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Long distance relationship, Many people wonder is a long distance relationship worth it? Any person worth having is worth waiting a few years for. If you both have something really special then take the plunge. You’d be surprised at how well a long distance relationship can work out. Granted, it won’t be easy and you’ll both go through your bouts of loneliness; however, the rewards for making it through are worth every lonely second.Communication and trust is the main key to keeping your sanity and your relationship together the very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication. Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient way of communication but there are some other alternative you can use. Like Instant messenger, emails text messages, ECT. Each communication has its own advantages and disadvantages so it’s up to you and you significant other to explore each of them to enhance your communication experience.Having trust in yourself and your significant other, you know your significant other personal manner, but you don’t get to really see what their day-to-day life would be like. Insecurity can be an evil presence in relationships when you’re in a long distance relationship; there are no rooms for suspicion In order for you to survive your long distance relationship you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other when you start to suspect your significant other at any point of your LDR. Although it is easier said than done but trust me, if your significant other has intention to do something unfaithful to you, they will still do it under the quite. Therefore there is no need for you to create such unnecessary stress in your relationship.Making a long-distance relationships work planning trips to see each other as often as possible will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while you where apart. Plus the anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, and eliminating the doubts and lonely feeling in your long-distance relationship. Sending unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your relationship regardless how far your partner may be.Surprise your significant other Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy especially telling them what they need to hear. Here a few step the 3 S’s, Sexy Text Messages keep your significant other thinking of you all day and all night with some steamy text messages. To get their imagination running wild ‘ like one of these suggestions: I dream of you here with me with nothing on. Sexy picture mail takes a sexy photo of you, doing all sorts of exciting and sexy things, in all sorts of exotic and interesting ways. Sexy Phone Calls put on your sexy voice. And Make the best of it with a little sexy phone chat. Or read an erotic story or start make up your sexual fantasies. Video chat and exchanging photos. Will keep you and your partner close despite the distance.Finding out your partner favorite sport and team, hobby. you will have something to discuss throughout your long distance relationship like for instance my boyfriend favorite sport is soccer, so I ask him to explain to me the rule and the regulation of the game and did my own research and now I have my own favorite team so when ever there is a game on we have something interesting to talk about especially when the both of our teams are playing we will be back and forth with who team will win and make bets that makes the conversation more fascinating . Also it shows your partner that you’re more interested than he thinks.Try to avoid conflicts in your a long distance relationships like disagreement, suspicion, misunderstanding, wrongly accusing, and overreacting , getting your points across isn’t always important. It’s about compromise and what’s good for the relationships. You have to be able to choose between issues that are critical and the ones that are okay to let slide. You have to ask yourself before you react whether or not this issue will actually strengthen your relationship with your partner. Think about what you are saying when you want to get your point across. Say things in a “polite way that helps your relationship level up.Couples in distance relationship always make a mistake by believing that their relationship will not work. The negative impression you have in will eventually hunt you down and destroy your relationship if you choose to listen to the negative comment. Therefore, once you have decided to enter into a long distance relationship, you must learn to believe that your relationship will work. I knew it because I had successfully conquered my own long distance relationship because I will be getting married this fall.
by shanna & yhanique

I am enough

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I am enough

My story ♥ http://massroyalties.origamiowl.com

This is to every young girl who has been hurt at some point in their life and left to feel like they have no purpose in life. I am writing this to let you know that you do have a purpose in life for God has created you with a purpose.
I once felt like my life had so purpose; and when you get that feeling you start to feel unworthy to be loved, you feel like a failure which lead to low/no self-esteem, no self confidence, no self love and all the other feeling that lead a person in to depression or thoughts of not living any more.
All those feeling I know a little too well I going to share with you part of my story which gives me the right to tell you that you do have a purpose in this life. At the age of 8 school had become unpleasant for me. I was picked on at school for 2 reason 1 because I was darker that than some of the kid in my class and 2 there was this girl who was suppose to be my half sister who was light skin with long pretty hair; so they said my mom don’t know who my father is it can’t be the man who she says it is cause we look nothing alike. That was where I started to lose my self-esteem. By age 10 I was raped and molested talk about self-esteem that when out the door. The only this I had left was my grades in school till one day I came home my aunt was there I had gotten 99.5 on a Spanish exam instead of saying congrats or something she said where is the .5 depression part 1 has just started.
I graduated primary and junior high school (middle and elementary school in one) top of my class in spited of everything because I had my Grandmother in my corner. Happy to start high school until I got there that was my hell on earth. During my high school years my mom move is the US so me and my sister lived with my grandfather it was understandable because we would join here soon enough but for me soon was not enough. I went to school everyday been bullied and picked on there go home in fear that some was there waiting to rape me. Living with my grandfather was not easy for me my sister could have careless about what he says he used to call us all kind a name that no parent or guardian should call a child so I used to go to my grandmother right after school so I did have to deal with him then she got sick and he curse when we came home late from school knowing we went to the hospital to see her he said we don’t need to go see her everyday then when she past he said ‘’why did one of us go with you to the doctor?”
OK back to my high school days I started my first relationship I thought it was perfect looking back that is not love. Because of me having low self-esteem and having your own family making you feel like you good was never good enough I settled. Not getting in to detail of that relationship let’s just the day I need the person who I thought loved me the most when my grandmother died he was with someone else but as the fool I was forgave and went back to that person. After that I started to slowly give on myself and hearing my grandfather saying me and my sister was the biggest mistake in my mother’s didn’t help at that point I just wanted to die that led to me wanting to take my life but God didn’t let me because when I was going to he sent someone cross my path who told me whatever that make you look that sad can’t be that bad. I dealt with that for 2yrs with no one to talk to about it because my family was a part of my problem.
Finally we got to go live with my mom I was happy until I felt I was throw in to a pack of wolves. Here I thought I could be all to heal from my past instead I had to start pretend to be someone I was not that my life was great and only talk about that good part of my childhood. Until this day no one know about my childhood because my mom has forgotten about it and so has my sister my brother wasn’t there to witness it. For me it was always in the back of my head I would see my brother give is daughter a bathe and I think the worst.
By the time I hit 20 I was a mess on the inside trust no one still had self-esteem problem and the people I was around now was so judgmental so I pretend. The first part of my life controlled me this would be fine till someone would do or say something jokingly or not and everything comes rushing back. I gave up on school cause of my past and I feel like that people around me was just like those all they want me to do is fail so now I feel like a big failure.
My cousin helped me start the healing process without knowing. He was the first person in my life to say “I love you” to me and I never had to question it because up to this they he is always there for me when I need him. Now at the age of 24 I can let go of my past thank to God and the my cousin for they have been the only this constant in my life and I am determined to make something of myself so I can repay him for always been there for me. One day I post something on my msn and he call me to talk to me to find out what was going on with me I will never forget that day he cared enough to check on me for his busy like that when I start loving myself and thanks to God him and some amazing once in a lifetime friends am here today as an independent designer for origami owl.. they loved and believe in me when I didn’t …I love them all with everything in me